Funerals and Memorials

As a celebrant, I work with families who wish to have their loved one’s life to be captured and celebrated in joyful, thoughtful and inspiring ways. Writing about a life lived is truly an honour for me but it is also an opportunity for those family and friends to share their grief, laugh, cry and remember their family member with fondness and love.

With care and compassion, I take the family through the process of creating a one-of-a-kind ceremony where we can weave a tapestry of words, music, poetry and pictures, to create an authentic and healing ceremony, that truly reflects that person’s life. Full Ceremonies, Graveside Committals and Interment/Scattering of Ashes.

“What you did for Dad yesterday was above and beyond. I have never been to or been involved in a service like that before, so didn’t really know what to expect. However,, from the very start you have made this extremely difficult time so much easier for us to bear. Your caring, compassionate and understanding nature shone through from the start and put us at ease. The eulogy you created off the back of our conversation covered every aspect about Dad’s life and touched the hearts of all that were there. The poem you wrote was also amazing and something I will treasure for evermore and something I will be printing off, framing and passing on to those it included at Joe’s Café. Lou, it takes a special person to be able to do what you do and I thank you with all my hearts and I know I speak for many others too. I will be recommending you onwards from here.”

The Baker Family – October 2022

“Would like to say how glad we are that we choose you, your input was great and your rendition of Shani’s life and loves was flawless.  You represented our mum as we hoped and helped us through all aspects of the daunting process. You played a major role in making a sad occasion very happy and filled with laughter and smiles.   I wish you all the best going forward and I will recommend your services to anyone and everyone who asks as being 100% all round. Thank you on behalf of myself and the extended family.”

The Langford Family – October 2022

“When we first met Lou we instantly felt her warmth and compassion. She was tremendously thoughtful in asking about our wife/mum, who’s funeral she was officiating.  She carefully guided us through planning a fitting and loving service to celebrate our wife/mums life. We would not hesitate to use her again or recommend her to family and friends.”

The Mills Family – October 2022

“Lou is very warm and engaging and took the time to get to know how we wanted Mums celebration of life to be put together.  It was obviously a very sad time but Lou’s kindness and understanding made the whole process of   arranging Mums service simple and stress free. Everyone who attended Mums funeral commented on how uplifting the ceremony was – a fond and fitting farewell, rather than a sombre occasion just how Mum would have wished. Lou made a very tough time emotionally easier to bear and I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend her services.”

The Barnett Family – May 2022

“When you’re facing maybe one of the hardest days of your life, saying goodbye to your loved one, it isn’t easy. When we met Lou she was bubbly and happy, but caring and compassionate, all at the same time, bringing ease when talking about our beloved Dad. At the service, she made us feel very involved and introduced herself to our brother, who she hadn’t met due to living further away. The eulogy was given with love and care but much expression throughout. Lou got my Dad to a ‘T’. I would recommend her to all families who want a happy celebration of a loved one’s life. Lou is the person for this.”

The Horne Family, October 2021

“Just wanted to write and say a huge thank you for your wonderful services as a Celebrant for my Dad’s funeral. I was immediately put at ease when you came to visit to talk about Dad and discuss the service. What you put together truly epitomised what we had hoped for and made us all feel as though you understood Dad and our family enough to speak with authority about his life. Lots of guests and family commented about the wonderful service and Dad, I’m sure, would have also approved. Your warmth, kindness and understanding in dealing with our family at this difficult time really helped us to give our Dad the send off we had hoped for. Many thanks again, we had a truly memorable day.”

The Hicks Family, September 2021

“I felt very safe in the hands of Lou Fowkes, I felt secure that she would provide my Husband with a lovely Eulogy and service. She did it was tailored for my Husband me and our family and friends perfectly. I found Lou to be kind caring and professional. Nothing was too much trouble. All of the family and friends present on the day commented what a lovely service it was. I would totally recommend Lou as a celebrant.” 

The Roots Family, July 2021

“From the 1st telephone call we had, you showed great empathy and immediately made a connection with me & Mum. You made us feel comfortable and confident in your hands. You took time to get to know us and find out about Dad. Your 1st version of the Eulogy was spot-on, showing that you’d really got a feel for the man he was and the qualities that fuelled his life. During the ceremony you were calm, clear, discrete and professional. You provided a source of personal comfort leading up to and on the day of the funeral – we had absolutely no reservations and trusted you implicitly. Mum and I agreed after the day that you were fantastic and made a significant contribution to the celebration of Dad’s life during the funeral ceremony. Thank you so much for your help – I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend you to anybody.”

The Nutten Family, December 2020


C. W. Lyons & Son – 51/53, Oxford Street, Whitstable, Kent CT5 1DB

Tel: 01227 272375

John Kemp – 26, Harbour Street, Whitstable, Kent CT5 1AH

Tel: 01227 272255

Beltinge & District – 132 Reculver Road, Beltinge, Herne Bay, Kent CT6 6PL

Tel: 01227 363300

W.S. Cole & Son – 17-19 High Street, Minster, Ramsgate, Kent CT12 4BU

Tel: 01843 821253

H R Palmer – 30 Hardres Street, Ramsgate, Kent CT11 8QF

Tel: 01843 592720